Parenthood, Reimagined
A Science-Backed Approach to
Co-Parenting
Find a committed co-parent, not a romantic partner.
ModFam helps you connect with individuals who share your values and vision for raising a child—without romantic expectations. Whether you’re ready now or just exploring, you can sign up and learn more.



SERVICES
Structured Support for Every Stage of Co-Parenting.
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Psychological Readiness
Complete a self-assessment and consult with licensed psychologists to ensure you're emotionally and mentally prepared for co-parenting.
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Compatible
Co-Parent Match
AI-powered matching based on values, parenting philosophies, and long-term goals—to help you find the right co-parent.
Think of it as a co-parenting guide, not a dating app—you’re in control.
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Communication & Prep
Receive expert coaching, structured discussions, and conflict resolution tools to build a strong, harmonious co-parenting foundation.
04
Secure Child’s Future
Access essential legal agreements, financial planning tools, and expert guidance on setting up trust funds to safeguard your child’s future.
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Fertility & Planning
Connect with top fertility specialists to explore your family planning options and make informed decisions for your future.
FAQ
You're probably
wondering...
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Who is this platform for?ModFam is for those who want a child without the complications of romance, whether through shared custody or other arrangements: 👤 Done with dating but still want to be a parent 🧑⚖️ Exploring co-parenting and seeking a like-minded partner Once you’ve found a potential match and decide to move forward, a professional will guide you through alignment—helping you navigate expectations, responsibilities, and legal considerations for a successful co-parenting partnership.
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How does the matching process work?The matching process involves a detailed questionnaire and psychological assessment to gauge compatibility. Based on your responses, the platform uses an algorithm to connect you with potential co-parents who align with your values, goals, and parenting styles. The process also considers important factors such as financial readiness, psychological health, and long-term goals.
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What makes this different from dating or co-parenting forums?Unlike dating apps or forums, ModFam is dedicated solely to the serious commitment of co-parenting. ✔ Psychological assessments ensure compatibility and readiness. ✔ Financial, legal, and parenting tools provide a structured approach for long-term planning. ✔ The platform is focused on raising a child—not on romantic or temporary relationships. Additionally, professionals will be at your disposal to guide you through the process, whether you’re just exploring parenthood, facilitating difficult conversations, or planning for the future.
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Do I need to take a psychological assessment before matching?Yes, all users are required to complete a psychological assessment to ensure they are emotionally prepared for the responsibilities of co-parenting and that their values align with potential co-parents.
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What if I don’t find a compatible co-parent?If you do not find a suitable match initially, you can adjust your preferences or take additional steps to improve your profile. We also encourage ongoing reflection through assessments to refine what you're looking for. Additionally, you will be notified when a compatible match becomes available, ensuring you don’t miss any potential connections.
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Can I set specific preferences for my co-parenting partner?Yes, you can specify preferences regarding values, goals, lifestyle, parenting styles, and other criteria that are important to you in a co-parenting partner.
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Do I need a prenup or legal contract before co-parenting?While not mandatory, having legal agreements such as a co-parenting contract or prenup is highly recommended to clearly define roles, responsibilities, and financial arrangements. The platform provides resources and guidance on what should be included in these agreements. If you find a match, we can connect you with a professional legal team to help you draft or review the necessary contracts, ensuring they are legally binding and tailored to your specific needs.
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Does the platform provide legal agreements or do I need my own lawyer?The platform does not provide legal agreements but can offer guidance on what should be included in a co-parenting contract. We partner with legal professionals, and if you find a match, you can connect with them via the platform to help you draft or review any agreements, ensuring they are legally binding and tailored to your needs.
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How do we ensure financial security for the child?Financial security can be planned through a combination of legal agreements, joint accounts, or insurance policies. The platform provides tools and resources to help you and your co-parent set up financial plans for your child’s future, including guidance on establishing trust funds. If needed, we can also arrange for a legal professional to facilitate the process and ensure that all financial arrangements are secure and legally sound.
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Does the platform offer fertility support or doctor referrals?The platform does not directly offer fertility support, but we do connect users with trusted medical professionals and specialists who can guide them through fertility or related services such as IVF or surrogacy.
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What if one co-parent wants to use IVF or surrogacy?The platform allows for discussions around fertility treatments, IVF, and surrogacy. We also help you find professionals to support these decisions, though it's important to consult with medical specialists about the details.
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How do we plan for shared custody and parenting roles?We provide resources and consultations on how to structure shared custody, including time-sharing arrangements, decision-making roles, and responsibilities. Our platform encourages communication and planning with your co-parent to ensure that both parties are equally involved.
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How is my information protected?Your personal information is protected through encryption, secure databases, and strict privacy policies. We do not share your data with third parties without your consent.
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What if I have concerns about the safety or suitability of a potential co-parent?If you have concerns, you can flag a potential match for review. Our platform ensures that each user’s profile is vetted, and we offer a reporting system for any suspicious or inappropriate behavior.
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Can I remain anonymous until I’m ready to connect?Yes, you can maintain anonymity in your profile and only reveal your identity once you feel comfortable connecting with a potential co-parent.
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Is this a free platform or is there a subscription?The platform offers both free and paid memberships. The free membership gives you limited access to certain features, while the paid membership provides full access to premium tools, consultations, and personalized services.
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What do I get with a paid membership?With a paid membership, you gain access to premium features like expert consultations, psychological assessments, legal resources, and additional tools for matching, planning, and managing your co-parenting journey.
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Can I speak with experts before committing?Yes, paid members can schedule consultations with legal, psychological, and fertility experts to help guide their decision-making before committing to a match.

BENEFITS
Building Strong Foundations for Future Families.
Science
Backed
Developed with psychologists, legal experts, and
fertility specialists.
Safe
& Private
A trusted space for serious
co-parents looking for a structured, transparent journey.
More Than
a Match
We help you build a lifelong co-parenting partnership.